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British Library - Book of Fortune
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A Fairing for Maids.
Being the honest Maids Councel to all other,
Better then she had given her by her Mother,
She wishes Maides in time for to be wary
And with what Young-men they intend to marry,
A single life is gallant she doth say
For being bound perforce they must obey.
To the Tune of, He that has most mony, etc.

ALl you brave Damsels come lend your attention,
I a brave Fairing unto you will send
The councel is honest of which I make mention
the Verses are witty which here I have pen'd
Some young-men are honest, and some are deceitful
and some with fair speeches wil lead you away.
Then chuse not a young-man the which is ungrateful
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey.

First I advise you all that hear this Ditty
with due admonishion in time to be rul'd
For Youngmen are cunning in Country and City
then see that by policy you be not fool'd
Some wil speak you most fair, thinking to insnare you
and many cunning baits for you will lay.
But I wish all Maidens in time to be wary
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey

You that are single and in haste would marry
thinking you have staid your time over-long
Let me advise you forthwith to be wary,
for hasty marriages oft produceth wrong,

When you are wedded then comes care and trouble
then farewel single life and Maidens joy
If Husbands be dogged then woes do redouble
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey

What if they promise and vow they do love you,
yet ne'r the sooner do you them beleeve
For it is but policy some waies to prove you
or by some flattering waies you to deceive
Some are so skilfull and crafty in wooing,
that they will follow you both night and day,
But when they have gain'd you it proves your undo-ing
for when you are bound, you needs must obey.

Some young-men are civil and wooe so demure
butter would not melt in their mouths you would think
But when they have won you they are crabed & sowre
and from their old promises straight they wil shrink
He that looks most civill as often is spoken
when he weds a Maiden her bones he will pay,
Then let this to maidens be still a true token
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey

The second part to the same tune.

THer's many wil promise you shal live most gallant
until they have brought you unto their own bow
But when they have gain'd you they will spend your talent
this by experience some maidens do know
Some do not wooe for love nor for beauty,
but seek after riches as much as they may
Then maidens neer yeeld unto such men in duty
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey.

Whilst you are single there's none to curb you,
go to bed quietly and take your ease
Early or late there's none to disturb you
w[a]lk abroad where you and when you please
A single life is free from all danger,
then maids imbrace it as long as you may,,
And never yeeld to neighbor nor stranger
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey.

When you are wedded then farewel all pleasure
And lest your Husband be loving and kind,
Marrie in haste, you will repent at leasure,
this by experience too many doe find
Children proceeding must have cloaths and diet
and Nurses wages oft times you must pay
When Maids from such Taxes do stil[l] live at quiet
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey

Yet I will not any Maiden disparage
if she a constant Youth chance for to find
Then let her joyn with him in lawful marriage
if he unto her be loving and kind,
Where love remaineth it is a great blessing
but if men be froward and sullen I say
There the womans woe is alwaies increasing
for when they are bound, then they needs must obey

Now in love I wish all Maids to consider
These witty Verses which here I have pen'd.
Though the gift be smal yet except of the giver
this Fairing through all parts to maidens I send,
And so for to end with my old Resolution
the which is both honest and true I dare saie
All Maidens be rul'd by this Song in conclusion
for when you are bound, then you needs must obey


FINIS.
J.P.
London Printed for Fra. Grove on
Snow-hill.

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