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Magdalene College - Pepys
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The Virgins A.B.C.
OR,
An Alphabet of Vertuous Admonitions, for a Chast, Modest,
and well-governed Maid. The Tune is, The Young mans A.B.C.

LL you faithfull Virgins,
to this song give ear,
And learn these Lessons,
which are taught you here:
An Alphabet of Vertues,
are here set,
Being learn'd
will make a Maid compleat.

Ear not a scornful mind,
although you are
Beautious as Hellen,
or like Venus fair:
It ill becomes a
forehead smooth and white,
To threaten anger
in a Lovers sight.

Huse thou a modest
carriage, and still be
Courteous and not too coy,
in company:
Their Nature's changing,
and too much unkind,
Who hath a comely face
and scornful mind.

Isdainful never seem,
nor yet too much
Dote on your faces beauty,
slighting such
As sue for Love,
least creeping age come on
And then too late,
your folly you bemoan.

Xchange no love,
but always constant be,
Esteem true love
a perfect treasury:
For where true love
and beauty doth unite,
It yields both parties
both their hearts delight.

Eign no affection,
but where vows a re past,
Fix there your heart,
there let your love be plac't
For if by feigned wiles,
loves knot be ty'd,
It breeds dissention
'twixt the Groom and Bride.

Row not too proud,
though smiling fortune do
Great store of wealth, and
her best gifts bestow:
For Pride the Proverb says
must have a fall,
And so must Maidens,
widdows, wifes, and all.

Ast not too much for
marriage, nor the thing,
Which doth not pleasure,
but doth sorrow bring;
For hasty lovers
often do destroy,
Their sweets of Love,
e're they their hopes injoy.

F you do chuse a man
whom you affect,
Injure him not,
with any disrespect;
But wary be, and
e're lovers knot you tye,
Prove first your own,
and then his constancy.

Nowledge is gained by
experience, and by this,
Thou may'st arrive
unto the height of bliss
First try, then trust.
the which when you have prov't
You both may love,
and be as well belov'd.

Ook e're you leap,
the proverb still doth say,
Let not smooth tongues
your love to Lust betray:
In fairest Grass
a snake is often found,
And smoothest tongues,
with falshood much abound.

Oan not too much,
nor be thou always sad,
Mirth sometimes may
become a vertuous Maid:
Yet use not too much
laughter, lest you be
Slighted and scorn'd,
for your immodesty.

Or use uncivil talk,
or gesture light,
Nor in unseemly
wantonness delight:
But keep chast behaviour,
that you may
Have good report,
in every kind of way.

Ffend not with a foul
and slandrous tongue,
Of them that do not
think thee any wrong;
But speak thou well of all,
and always do
With others as you would
have them to do with you.

Aint not your beauty
when it is decay'd;
Prize not that for
a jewel that will fade,
And when you've done,
the best will fade away,
And through red Cheeks,
a wrinkled brow display.

Uench in thy self
all lusts inflaming fires,
Which may provoke thee
to such unchast desires;
For though a while
pleasure please the mind,
Yet sorrow, want,
and beggary comes behind.

Emember next
how like a fading flower,
The earths best treasures
vanish in an hour:
And now the best of things
you can enjoy,
The Sithe of time shall cut,
and death destroy.

Eek therefore richer
gifts then he can give,
So shalt thou in a state
most surely live:
For though fair beauty,
deck thy outward part,
Yet inward vertue
best adorns thy heart.

Ry that rich jem, which
when thou hast attain'd,
Thou hast a vertuous Maids
chief beauty gain'd:
And if fair vertue
do thy courses steer,
Like loves fair daughter,
thou shalt bright appear.

Ain beauty's but a triffle,
that a while
Dame nature lends thee,
with a flattering smile:
Which lovers gaze at,
and with greedy hands,
Each one will crop its
blossoms as it stands.

Hilst in its fullest ripeness
it is grown,
When 'tis decay'd,
theire loves are with it g[one]
Let then this be thy care,
and chiefest strife,
To live a vertuous Maid,
and honest Wife.

Antippe like the wife
of Socrates,
Affect thou not
thy husband to displease:
Nor with a railing tongue,
pursue his will,
And in humility,
obey him still.

Ield not to others when
you once are wed,
The pleasures of
your lawfull husbands b[ed]
For if you guilty be
of such a fact,
Thou shalt not escape,
unpunisht for that act.

Ealous be thou in all
these vertues, prove
Both constant, chast, and
loyal to your love:
And if these Lessons
well you learn, for thee,
'Tis truly stil'd
the Virgins A, B, C.


Printed for J. Wright, J. Clark W. Thackeray, and T. Passenger.

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